People have often asked me how do I deal with the negative ego of other people. How can I not get angry with them especially when they are self centred, insulting or attacking? And my reply is that what they do and how they behave is not about me, it is about them. If they choose to be in their negative ego, it is their prerogative. My focus is only on making sure I am not also indulging in negative ego consciousness.
When a person is in their negative ego, they are not truly thinking, they are merely operating from ingrained patterns in their minds. This means that they are not really mentally awake and for the most part are not mentally stable. Would you get angry with someone because they are not balanced? Whether they are imbalanced mentally, emotionally or physically, it doesn't matter. The key here is not to give your power away to their instability and simply remain still and within the eye of the hurricane. Ultimately other people will learn the lessons in their own time when the Laws of Attraction catches up with them.
In the Transformational counseling and coaching programs that we do, we seek to empower people and assist them in not giving their power away to other's people negative ego so that they may find the peace and happiness within themselves.